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I was chatting with some people online recently, and I had an encounter with a guy. He sent me a message saying only, "sup". I replied back accordingly, "hello", since I detest being greeted with one word salutations. He then replied, "chillen, holla at cha boi". Aside from the obvious disconnect I experienced because of the language use and lack of sentence structure I witnessed on my screen; I felt violated to some degree. It was as if someone had taken my understanding of the English language and said "WRONG!!!", this is how you should speak. I decided to respond anyway (curiosity...lol). After about another minute or so of banter I ended my discussion with him. Interestingly, I get quite a few hits or messages aggressively soliciting sex. I am still amazed at how much "perception" and "environment" play a factor in the expectations we often place on people. For example, I find it interesting that some people feel that chat lines are only sex sites and that anyone on such site should "assume the position" as they say. Why can't people just want to chat? Is there something really wrong with that??